Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Live by the moment; with no regrets.


You are exactly where we are supposed to be...

We worry too much sometimes. I’m starting to really think that whatever that is happening to anyone, would only benefit them in the future. It’s one thing to do a mistake, and another thing to learn from it. We’ll never move on if we don’t learn from it, it’s something like whatever don’t kill you, makes you stronger. Life works in a way where when you’re young, unnecessary things happen to you but as you grow older, you’ll work things out, that’s when you grow up. You learn from it.

I used to think, people have yet to still experience the worst thus they behave a certain way. But then again, that’s something no one can control, everytime I see something that I disagree, somehow or another I know that someone will learn from it. That makes sense doesn’t it? We are where we are supposed to be from the mistakes we have learned.

Oh well. On another seperate note, phases of things happening in such a sequential way, that it feels really weird now. I hope I get it right and I think I would make it right.

Feelings, I often feel, are seriously underrated in a sense that we often fail to admit what we’re really feeling before it is too late. It’s undeniable that our feelings could and would change towards different people in our lives, it is good meeting new people as you might never know the feelings we harbor might just lead to a lifetime of happiness. A cliche? Much.

We shouldn’t really be afraid of admitting our feelings to someone, I mean there is no shame and most of the time, the people that screws it up are the people who can’t seem to fathom what we’re trying to say. I’ve had bad experiences, where the feeling of awkwardness immediately surfaces but honestly that shouldn’t really be the case. It’s better to be truthful and still remain as normal as you can get rather than be truthful and be awkward as you can really be. Like I said, it’s just feelings, you’ll never know maybe the most imperfect person you’ll meet is somehow or another perfect for you. Don’t be afraid, rather never be afraid, to admit your feelings to someone else, it helps you grow as an individual. You’ll know if someone is really worth it to be a friend or a partner from the first words that comes out from their mouth (:

O.k.a.y. Looks like I've sum up the conversation we had yesterday. Gonna catch up with the telly before turning in.

Goodnight. I love you. Yes you! ((:

Lots of love, Nin.

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